childbirth?
ByMe and my husband just had our first baby about a week ago. I had natural childbirth and i was in so much pain I thought I was going to die! I was bawling and screaming. My husband tried to comfort me but it didn’t help. She is soooooooooo cute and I don’t regret having her but after having her but I wonder if I should go through all that pain again having another baby? I really want at least 2 or 3.
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7 Comments
March 14th, 2010 at 1:03 pm
DO IT! I want 5
March 14th, 2010 at 1:21 pm
you can do it! Just get a pain reliever. Epidural or something through your IV.
March 14th, 2010 at 2:03 pm
those memories will soon fade. and next time you can get an epidural.
March 14th, 2010 at 2:41 pm
Don’t worry, you like most women will have a memory laps of just how painful childbirth really is and give in to the idea of having more kids. You aren’t going to feel that that right away, unless your a masacist!!! Ha Ha, but eventually you’ll realize that we live on through our kids, so it’s only natural for you to feel the urge to have at least one more no matter how difficult the pregnancy might have been.
March 14th, 2010 at 3:03 pm
the thought os the pain will lessen as time goes by! i think most women say they will never have any more for months after giving birth. but they soon change there minds. just think of what you got out of all that pain. women give birth every hour so it cant be all that bad!
good luck with your new little princess x.x.x
March 14th, 2010 at 3:12 pm
Congratulations. You are amazing. If you want to weigh the reasons to go natural, be informed. Read Ina Mae Gaskin’s book about childbirth, Born in the USA (not sure the author, he’s an OB) and Henci Goer’s book The Thinking Woman’s Guide to a Better Birth.
March 14th, 2010 at 3:52 pm
Gosh, I told my hubby every time ill never do this again ! Im now on number 4 lol, You will forget the pain until your in labour the next time !! Your first is always the hardest on your body, and from my experience my labours get shorter the more i have last one was 2 hours ! yes it hurts like hell but its all over when the bub is out , I have had no epidural for any of them as a personal choice no matter how painful they have been, you need to relax yourself and focus on the other side of the labour and things will be much better ! i stay in the shower for ages when Im in labour I lay on the floor and my hubby brings his spare shorts and comes in there with me ! you will be ok when you get yourself worked up crying and screaming then you will have a worse labour everytime , as your not in control of anything stay positive relax and breathe your way through it try to rest between contractions