Anyone let their baby cry it out for naps?

By pregnantnews

I want to hear your stories. How do you do it? How long? Any information would be helpful, thanks.
P.S. I am not asking for opinions on whether you agree or disagree with this so leave your negative remarks out or you will be promptly reported.
-I’m not trying to be rude with the PS but I am asking an honest question and I dont want to hear that I’m a bad parent for asking this question. There are a lot of trolls on here.

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11 Comments

1

You ever watch Supper Nanny? I have two kids and let them cry it out till they fell asleep. It’s hard but worth it because they get the point after awhile.

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zack's my handsome little ma
February 2nd, 2010 at 10:48 pm

i dont agree with it, but a flyer that we were given at my sons doctors office says to let them cry for no longer than 20 minutes.
someone at my husbands work says up to an hour.
personally i cant do it. i think its mean, but everyone does what they need to.

(by the way when you ask a question, you are in fact asking for people’s opinions.)

3

We transitioned with crying it out. Until my son was about 7-8 months old I didnt leave him to fall asleep on his own from the onset. I’d go in and rock him, or pat his back until he was mostly asleep, or already asleep, and then leave him. If he woke up (night time or nap time) before he should have, it was his job to figure out how to fall back to sleep.

Once he was older and I KNEW he could fall asleep on his own I would put him down for naps awake. Let him cry a little, but he fell asleep right off. Night times I didnt leave him to cry himself asleep until he was probably about 8-9 months old.

The first few times he would cry and carry on for hours. But after a few days he fell straight to sleep like a champ.

Its only as tragic as you make it. Kids this age learn very fast, none of it lasts long as long as you leave them and dont interrupt the learning process by putting them to sleep yourself.

4

You do know you cant just report for negative remarks?

My kids took thier naps at the same time every day and I rarely had problems but would let them cry for a few minutes if necessary. After 10 minutes or so I would go in and comfort them and cover them up and leave again. It didnt take long for them to just go to sleep.

5

im trying the same with my son now….its only been a weeks so far hes starting to fall asleep on his own sometimes…but somtimes i just can let him cry..

6

I have a few times depending on how tired he is and what kind of cry it is. If it is a soft, whimpering cry and he stops in between I let him cry. Usually it is because he is so tired he needs a bit of a cry.
Exercising their lungs is healthy and they need to learn to wait sometimes. I am sometimes in the middle of making dinner and I will talk to him so he knows I am close by and that I am coming.
If after 10-15 minutes he hasn’t stopped and the cry escalates I will pick him up and comfort him.
*My son is 6 months, the oldest is 5 years*
The other day he was super tired. He had missed his morning nap and holding him wasn’t helping so I put him in his bed and he cried and it got softer and shorter and he went to sleep and slept well.
It is good to let them figure out how to self soothe or you end up pacing the floor until they are too old to learn how to go to sleep on their own.

7

I didn’t let my baby cry it out till he was about four months. I think now that I held him and nurtured him for the first four months of his life, he has an easier time getting to bed and only fusses for a few minutes before falling asleep. He does cry sometimes because he is overlly tired and even holding won’t calm him most of the time. So I let my husband lay him down on the bed and he stays with him while he cry’s and this last about five minutes before I come in and hold him. I can’t let my baby cry for some reason.

8

i let my daughter cry til she fell asleep. it seems harsh but its just something uve got to do! if u go 2 them everytime they cry then they will keep expecting it and wont learn. i also found that putting her in her pram and going for a quick walk up and down the street helped her fall asleep sometimes!

9

Wow with the P.S. If you ask a question you are asking for opinions. Yikes.

As to your question, it depends on how old the child is. You don’t mention an age???? I would never let an infant cry it out. They need to feel the love and security parents should be giving them. However as they get older and are able to be on a schedule you can let them cry for a bit, especially if they are simply disagreeing about wanting to go to bed.
You should be able, as a parent, to distinguish your child’s cry and know if they are crying for attention or something else.
You need to be patient above all else. Remember, this too shall pass.
And believe me, they grow up so darn fast it’s heartbreaking :)

10

We have a music thing that plays for 6 minutes. If she shows no signs of settling down, we give up. Crying is a form of communication and to ignore it can lead to other problems. They might ’seem fine’ but they are losing their trust that you will respond to their needs–so they stop asking. It’s breaking their hearts when they need you and you ignore them. Think of how an adult who’s lost his ability to speak would feel if you starting ignoring him just because he can’t say the words you understand.
We rarely had any crying for naps. A good routine, babywearing, respecting their needs for sleep or not, lots of exercise.

11

I think every baby is different and different things work for different people, so if people judge you for doing what you have to do then they just should be ignored. Some babies go to sleep easily, and others (like mine, and I guess yours) are a little harder. I had to let my son cry. And I had to be consistent with it. Just listen to him on a monitor or outside his door while he’s crying (I know it’s hard) to be sure he’s okay. If you go get him, then he knows that you will do it and will keep crying and that just draws it out. Be consistent. If you go in after twenty minutes of crying, I promise that he’ll just keep crying everyday.
Stick it out. It’s important that your child gets the sleep that he or she needs, and establishes healthy sleep habits.
Which reminds me, read the book called “Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child” it’s really helpful and will give you some confidence when people tell you that you are a bad parent for making (actually you are helping and teaching) your child to sleep.
And it does not mean you are lazy. You are doing something very important (and hard). People are really full of themselves sometimes and think that if they do something, it must be the right thing to do for everybody. Ignore people’s ignorant and self-absorbed responses and do what’s best for your child.
See who’s that bad parent when your child is well rested and happy while theirs whines all day from being over-tired and the parent is an exhaused wreck.

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