AM I PREGNANT? YES OR NO?
ByQuestion by Tina T: AM I PREGNANT? YES OR NO?
ok so, on october 28 me and my boyfriend decided to get a little sexual. no we did not have intercourse, but i had my underwear and pants on, when he had nothing but his shirt on. his penis went under my legs, touching my vagina, but it did not go in cus my pants were on. he did not ejaculate, either . so now its feb, so its been around 3 months …im scared im pregnant because i havent had my period for 2 months. is it still possible for me to get pregnant? i am only 14 years old ..and i dont wanna tell my parents. i dont have any other symptoms of being pregnant other than my irregular period .
k so this is an update on this question . im really terrified that i might be pregnant because i am only 14 years old. be respectful, i know i do stupid things .
so, i took a pregnancy test, and it came out as negative.
although, my tummy seems to have a little point/bump on it ….but it may just be me or that i have fat. no im not “fat” im farely skinny but yeah. so im still scared im pregnant, because of my period. …however, when i was doing the pregnancy test, and got up, i found blood on the toilet seat …..it was probobly my period, because i didnt stick the test thing up my …you know ..i dont even think your suppost to . anyways, sorry this is long. please help me !
AND, i still have no symptoms of being pregnant like ” soar breasts, nausea” and things . IM SCARED FOR MY LIFE. PLEASE HELP ! 
however, when i was doing the pregnancy test, and got up, i found blood on the toilet seat …..it was probobly my period, because i didnt stick the test thing up my …you know ..i dont even think your suppost to
^ sorry i forgot to mention for that part, there was blood on the toilet seat, but hardly nothing on my underwear, just like maybe 1 dot or 2 .
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May 18th, 2011 at 4:36 am
you’re stupid for having sex at 14 but besides that if the test says you arent then you most likely arent
May 18th, 2011 at 5:32 am
Go to your doctor, genius
May 18th, 2011 at 6:24 am
If your stomach is FAT, then yes you’re pregnant, but if your whole body is FAT, then I’m not sure.
May 18th, 2011 at 7:20 am
please just go buy a pregnancy test……..no one can tell you if you’re pregnant except a doctor!!
May 18th, 2011 at 7:28 am
i am 14 too. i have irregular periods all the time. i will go for 4 months with out it sometimes.
May 18th, 2011 at 8:08 am
no your not pregnant, its normal for some girls to have irregular periods and you cant get pregnant without intercourse hun
o yea…ur on your period….put a pad on
May 18th, 2011 at 8:53 am
No doubt about it fertile myrtle. Your eggo is preggo.
May 18th, 2011 at 9:07 am
The answer is simple: ASK A DOCTOR!
May 18th, 2011 at 9:30 am
NO. i am so sick of little girls coming on here asking stupid questions. YOUR FUCKING PANTS WERE ON. Stop doing these things if you have no idea what you’re doing.
May 18th, 2011 at 10:11 am
go to the doctors tell ur parents deck your bf
May 18th, 2011 at 10:42 am
Take another test, READ THE DIRECTIONS! But if the first one was negative and you did not actually have SEX then I doubt you are.
May 18th, 2011 at 11:24 am
i doubt your pregnant.. your still very young and when your that young you period is normally very irregular.. sperm has to meet your egg to conceive a child.
May 18th, 2011 at 11:39 am
Im not sure sweetie. But if you have a friend that could take you to the store to get another test, do that. (f that helps) Then tell your mother that you havent had a period.
The thing is if you know that you have not been having sex then you have absolutely nothing to worry about.
May 18th, 2011 at 11:49 am
umm.. there is no possible way you are pregnant if you truly kept your pants /panties on and his penis did not actually touch your vagina. Though I find it pretty strange that his penis would be “flying freely in the wind” if you kept your pants on… ??? Anyhow, sperm has to enter the vagina in order to cause pregnancy.
May 18th, 2011 at 12:13 pm
you are not pregnant, if u had your pants on, there is no way the sperm could get into you. when u said u found blood on the toilet, that was your period, and when woman are pregnant, they dont get their period. so good news!! your not pregnant!
May 18th, 2011 at 12:39 pm
You’re probably not preggers, but your best bet is to go to the doctor.. since you’re worried about your parents. Go to plan parenthood. It’s not too expensive and they will not tell your parents. just look them up in your area online
May 18th, 2011 at 1:33 pm
If you were pregnant, you would be like 4 months pregnant and it would be pretty noticeable so I don’t think you are.
May 18th, 2011 at 2:30 pm
i don’t think so, it would be a LONG shot if you were
May 18th, 2011 at 3:28 pm
ok, since you don’t even know how to take the test i feel awful for this effing child that CAN’T POSSIBLY EXIST.
this is the reason that people say not to have sex when you’re young. if you can’t spell fairly, type vagina, or put a smiley face when you’re “scared for your life” than you’re a fucking moron who really sholdn’t ever, ever breed.
i bet you can’t even understand this.
May 18th, 2011 at 3:29 pm
HPT are fairly accurate. If you aren’t planning on being a mother, then you need to be on birth control. First off, you shouldn’t be having sex at 14. If you can’t accept the consequences of your actions, then don’t have sex. Second off, you need to tell your parents you are having sex. If you are still scared that you are pregnant, you need to see a doctor to make sure. If you are pregnant, which you probably aren’t, you need to take care of this child right away. You are too immature to have sex, and definately too immature to be a mother.
May 18th, 2011 at 3:38 pm
sorry i cant help you but just to say you shouldnt even be making out at 14
May 18th, 2011 at 3:38 pm
No you are NOT pregnant
the chances of you becoming pregnant from that are zero.
AND you have your period..AND the test came out as negative
how can you possibly be?
but if you are still scared just take another test I promise you are not
May 18th, 2011 at 4:31 pm
no u not pregnant at 14 t is typical to have irregular periods
May 18th, 2011 at 5:01 pm
How can you get pregnant if a man does not ejaculate? The pre-ejaculation. I highly doubt you are pregnant. And the pregnancy test is suppose to test PEE not anything in your vagina… Stop doing things sexually when you are not old enough to understand safe sex practices, or anything.. And in no way does this endanger your life so stop saying your “scared for your life”. Your probably starting your period now, you are fat, and MOST teen girls have irregular periods to begin with…
May 18th, 2011 at 5:53 pm
Go do a test And See What comes up ^^
May 18th, 2011 at 5:53 pm
how do you know the exact date? that’s kind of weird. Your probably not pregnant but you need to tell your parents and go to the doctor. If you weren’t ready for the responsibility of being pregnant then you shouldn’t have had sex.
May 18th, 2011 at 6:48 pm
even though he did not ejaculate, the penis still leaks. so maybe. take a test. they’re only $1 at dollar general. Or go to a women’s clinic and find out for free. stop freaking out. and 14 in entirely too young.
May 18th, 2011 at 7:40 pm
yes, he probably did ejaculate through the pants without you knowing so now your pregnant and test are only 80% right
May 18th, 2011 at 7:41 pm
Possibly.
But several diffrent brands of pregnancy test and take them, you dont SOUND pregnant, but still take them, if one says positive then go to a doctor.
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May 18th, 2011 at 8:29 pm
You are not pregnant, if you were the test would have been positive. You are only 14, you do not have regular periods yet (unless on birth control) it is possible you just skipped a month or 2
May 18th, 2011 at 9:27 pm
Well.. technically you didn’t have sex…
So why don’t you just tell your mom you are about 4 months late with your period, which is kind of dangerous ?
And please, read the instructions on the test.. you don’t need to insert anything in there, unless it is battery operated..
May 18th, 2011 at 10:07 pm
You’re probably not pregnant. My menstrual cycle had irregularities like that when I was your age. But, if you having sex and don’t want to get pregnant, make sure you guys use protection during ANY sexual activity. Be safe rather than sorry.
And by the way, I doubt you would be “showing” by now! If you’re fairly thin, then it should months before there’s an obvious tummy. You’re probably just bloated or something.
May 18th, 2011 at 10:59 pm
If you took a test then you are not pregnant. If it has been any time over a month since you have had any contact that MIGHT have ended in pregnancy it would have had plenty of time to show up. Your hormone levels would be very high by now and there is no way you could have gotten a false negative. As for the missed period it could very well be stress. Your young body is just learning how to function with the whole menstrual thing and then you through stress on top of it…you will be whacked out! I would relax and if you don’t have a cycle in a month I would tell your mom and head to the Dr. to get looked at. I know you are shaking your head but look at it this way. If you have not had your period by then there is either something really wrong with you or you are so far pregnant that you REALLY need some prenatal care.
I honestly think you are NOT pregnant but remember this feeling next time you mess around!
May 18th, 2011 at 11:23 pm
Considering that you only 14 years old, you should know all about this. But I am assuming you have never paid any attention in your health class. Also since you are young your period is irregular. So considering that you didn’t actually have sex, your not pregnant.
May 18th, 2011 at 11:37 pm
How could his penis touch your vagina if your pants were on? You’re not pregnant, stop being such a drama queen.
May 19th, 2011 at 12:05 am
okay first off ur not pregno if his *penis* never went in.
hope i helped
even if the sperm did come out its killed as soon as the air hits it.
im assuming u havent had ur period for that long.
ur still maturing and ur cycle will change over time as u get older.
but to be safe tell ur parents that ur cycle isnt normal and go get checked out. u dont have to tell em ne thing else.
sum girls have diff cycles. if u dont have ne signs i wouldnt worry bout it. and u could of missed it for two months also bc ur stressing bout this. stress can make u skip too. so juss chill out and take a deep breath. if u didnt let him inside ur fine and NOT pregno.
tkae it eazy if it dont come by next month talk to ur mom and tell her u wanna go to the healt dept. and tell her u havent got ur period back and if she asks if u had sex juss tell her the truth and say no.
u dont have to tell her ne thing else. take care
May 19th, 2011 at 12:52 am
Probably not. I am like you 14 and understand how you feel. I have much pressure on me, not to get pregnant at my age since my now 23 year old sister did get pregnant at my current age. Since you had your pants on, and he didn’t actually have intercourse with you, then you probably don’t have a little baby in you. Remember, 13 and 14 year olds’ periods are irregular during the first to years of having their period. Don’t worry about the bump, most women tend to have those, as the fat in that area is hard to get rid of for teens and young adult girls/women. I hope you be careful and don’t experiment with sex until you are older and more mature.
PS: I am studying to be become a doctor in the Medical Field so I know some medical terms. Email if you any other questions to what I have said….Again be careful
May 19th, 2011 at 1:47 am
Get a pregnancy test..
May 19th, 2011 at 1:56 am
I don’t think you are pregnant. But I must ask how you used the pregnancy test. Did you read the directions? All you do is pee on it. There is no sticking it anywhere. If your boyfriend did not ejaculate and didn’t stick his penis inside you, there is probably no chance at all that you could be pregnant. I know people who have done that plenty of times without mishap. Stop worrying. Stress could keep you from having a regular period. And when you’re young an irregular period is very normal anyway. I was a little unclear on whether or not you have had a period since October, but if you have had one at all, you ARE NOT pregnant.
That said, don’t get sexual without birth control unless you’re ready for the possibility of pregnancy. Even if you’re not having sex, you should be using a condom to protect yourself from STDs because you don’t have to actually have sex to pass a disease from one person to another. If you touch genitals, you should be using a condom!
Wait for this kind of sexual stuff until you’re much older and ready to handle all of the stress, responsibility and emotions that come with it. I don’t mean to lecture you at all, but I worry about girls who start doing things like this when they’re really young. I just want you to be safe and happy.
Please stop worrying, ok!
May 19th, 2011 at 2:44 am
no you not lol… well i doubt it lol… if you dont have your periods for 2 months it doesnt mean your pregnant lol… my teacher said that it happens sometimes so dont worry lol… your not pregnant so dont worry
and you could be imagining the bump on your stomach because your esadurating 
… take the test again incase but im sure it will say negative so dont worry about it 
… i suggest you should be careful in future =)
May 19th, 2011 at 3:21 am
Ok hun there are a lot of questions to ask before we can get you a real answer. First off is this your only sexual experience? I mean you have never had actual intercourse? Since your clothing was still intact, I would say this particular experience isn’t going to result in a pregnancy.
With that all said and assuming you have not had any other sexual experiences, you need to get into see your doctor. The cause of your missed period could be due to normal everyday reasons, or there could be an underlying issue causing the absent period. You best and safest thing to do at this pointy is to speak with your doctor and get checked out. Also at this pint I would ask your doctor about any sexual questions you may have. Even at your age, you are allowed to speak to your doctor in private with no parents in the room to cover any of these embarrassing questions you may have. You can always ask your doctor if you can talk to him or her and then ask your mom(because I assume she would take you since you don’t drive yet) to leave the room because you are embarrassed. Plus you really need to talk tp your doctor and get information on the best ways for you to protect yourself if you feel you are ready to become sexually active. However 14 is a bit young to start.