he is having a baby with another woman and she wants nothing to do with it.?
Bymy man and i have been together for about 6 months now, and we have the best relationship ever. we are planning on getting married one day. we have both been married and divorced. he has 2 kids from his marriage and i have 3. when we started dating 6 mos ago he told me that he had gotten a girl pregnant after he split from his wife. she is about to give birth and wants nothing to do with the baby.(probably because she decided to go back to her husband and her other 2 kids. however she offered for the two of us to stay with her when we go to pick up the child, and wants him in the room when she has her c-section. she says to hurry up and get the baby out of the room. i am so confused i love him so much, but having children myself i know the feelings a new baby can bring between two people. he says that he cant stand her and he just wants to get his son and come back home. any thoughts???
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May 2nd, 2010 at 1:41 am
ok tough.
do u want 2 take care of a child between ur man and another woman together with ur man?
well if he cant stand her, and its true, then he STILL must luv u after all this.
well, he IS the parent and she is the OTHER parent, so well, this feeling of a new baby can bring has to have a couple who is ready to feel commited to take care of this baby and luv him/her 4ever.
if he cant stand her and he luvs u, maybe this feeling will happen once he brings the baby home!
May 2nd, 2010 at 2:04 am
i think that for the relationship to work you need to respect his decision. He wants to be with his son and also wants to make things work with you. If it works brilliant. If it doesnt he has a responsibility to his son to choose him over you. Im sorry. but on the bright side you are very lucky to find a man that is so ready to accept responsibiltity! you can tell he’s a keeper!
good luck chick