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My 8 1/2 month old son wakes, and won’t go back to sleep?

By pregnantnews

And don’t lecture me about cosleeping, I don’t want to hear it.

We had been cosleeping since basically about 2 or 3 weeks after he was born (I got sick of it taking all night to get him to fall asleep, most nights he was up till 3am in and out of sleep every 5 minutes crying, he absolutely would not sleep in his bassinet or crib no matter what we did).

When he started to learn to crawl I decided it was time to try to move to his crib again. It went so smoothly I wanted to go online and yell at everyone whoever said cosleeping is bad and you’ll suffer when you try to move them to their own bed.

He was apparently ready for the transition. I put him down in his crib that first night, he went to sleep within 5 minutes. He got up at 3am, every night as was normal, I fed him, he went back to sleep in his crib. It went that well for about 2 months.

Now for the last week every single night he wakes between 11pm and midnight and won’t go back to sleep for about an hour or 2.
And it’s a hard hour or 2. I try to just put him back to sleep for about 20-30 minutes, to no avail. (I try, leave, come back, try again, leave etc) After about half an hour of it not working, I take him out, try feeding him, which seems to calm him, but then I try to put him back in his crib, and the same thing, he keeps standing up on the side and crying. I try for awhile, then I try bringing him into our bed, and that doesn’t work either, he does the same, tries to get unto his belly and crawl away, and he cries at any attempt to comfort him to sleep.

In desperation to see if it would work I’ve even tried just bringing him right into our bed immediately when he wakes up, feeding him, and just letting him stay with me. Still the same thing. No matter what I do he is up for the next hour, crying and upset and trying to crawl away.

Is it maybe a stage because he’s just learned to cruise and he’s so eager to move around? Did your baby go through anything similar?
Oh I forgot to mention we give him teething tablets too when this happens, thinking maybe that’s what’s keeping him awake, but that doesn’t work either.

He only seems to go back to sleep when he finally gets tired of being stopped from crawlign away. We also tried just letting him crawl around on one night for nearly an hour thinking if he got it out of his system he’d go to sleep and he was up anyway for an hour after that. Seems nothing works! lol.

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5 Comments

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My son is 10 months old, and went through the worst of this about two months ago. It IS because he wants to get up and go now that he has learned how to. It does get better. My son sleeps through the night now, BUT getting him to sleep for the night is tough, because he pulls up and cries. Keeping with our specific bedtime routine of holding him for about half and hour after nursing, then having him say goodnight to everyone and just about everything, then a bedtime prayer. It gets him ready, and MOST of the time he is asleep within five minutes and stays asleep until 530. Getting him back to sleep is tough sometimes, but I just nurse him, say goodnight, and lay him back in his crib. If he gets up and starts playing instead of going back to sleep, he eventually falls asleep anyhow. Sometimes he still won’t, but most of the time it’s OK. We coslept until around 6 months also. Good Luck. It will get better with consistency and time.

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the luckiest mama in the world
April 23rd, 2010 at 5:39 pm

LOL what you just described there sounds EXACTLY like I was talking about my baby and our new situation, and I was going to ask this question today, but I think that it is cause they just learned how to cruise. and I think my so tries to crawl away when he is on the bed cause he is looking for something to pull himself up on. I have no advice but I will be looking to see what advice you get cause I NEED it too!! It seems like I am getting as much sleep now as I did the first few weeks he was home! :( Good luck, nights will get better. They wont be waking us up during the night when they are in college…..right?

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I’d maybe try feeding ASAP before going that 20-30 min, he may be going through a growth spurt, and then putting him back down after the feeding…. THEN giving him the 20-30 minutes (no lights, no mobile, no toys – added stimulation) because on a full belly he may go back to sleep. I don’t think it’s the co-sleeping thing because as you said, it sounds like he was ready for the transition. He also may be getting a new set of teeth, you may want to check for that in which case, some Tylenol ought to help out at night.

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quiet_heartbreak
April 23rd, 2010 at 5:54 pm

These have all been great answers, but i would like to ask if he could be a touch gassy as well? With the new and different foods he should be eating by now that might play a part in it. Make sure you are burping him extra well.

5

Try to feed him rice cereal so he will go back to sleep. does he wake up and scream? or just lay there.
If hes not crying or anything. Feed him.. Put him back in his crib and just leave him there, if he isnt crying.. he will eventually fall back to sleep

how many naps does he have during the day?

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