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My baby doesn’t like to sleep????

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She won’t fall asleep alone and won’t fall asleep until 11:30. She only takes 20 minute naps 4 during the day. I tried crying it out, but she will not stop. I did this for 2 hours. When she does fall asleep it has to be on her stomach, cosleeping with me or else she wakes up in 15 minutes. If I take a nap with her she’ll sleep for about a half hour. She sleeps 4 hours, feeds then another 4 hours. This does not seem to be enough for a 3 month old. By the way, she’s already teething. I tried tylonel and teething tabs. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have her on Gentlease formula (she had colic) and keep her up at least 30 minutes after feeding. She just seems to never want to be alone and hates to sleep!!!

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15 Comments

1

Maybe it because she teething

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This could be a habit she had from within your Womb. I believe she will soon become adjusted. Be patient and continue to show her lots of love.
Good luck.

3

maybe after she eats, shes not sitting up long enough and is getting stomach pains. gas and all. make sure u burp her afterward and keep her sitting upright or laying upright some for a while after eating.

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try wrapping her in a blanket and holding her for a while before you put her down and make sure that she is burped really good. she could have a little case of colic. In the teething problem have you tried baby Ora-gel.

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My daughter was like this for over 2 years. She is 6 now and still stays up way later than other kids her age. We tried everything, and absolutely nothing worked. From no naps to 4 naps a day, nothing made any difference. I wish i could give you useful advice, and you’ll likely hear alot of advice, i can almost guarantee you that nothing will work. Trust me, We tried everything.
And any parent who can use the “cry it out” method and not feel like monsters need to have their kids taken away!
But dont worry, different kids need different amounts of sleep. Just like adults. She will sleep as much as she needs to. The only thing that might work is to make sure that she doesnt have to much fun and playtime directly before bedtime or first thing in the morning. That way, she wont feel like sleep will make her miss anything fun.

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Hang in there. If she is not screaming and crying all the time. Then enjoy her. Don’t put so much focus on getting her to sleep. Then it only intensifies the situation and you get stressed. My daughter was not much of a sleeper either. I swore during the day she was awake all the time. At a young age like yours. I was so annoyed at my friends who said there babies sleep all day and all night. So after much stress, I just enjoyed her. As far as her sleeping for 4 at night then getting up to eat and then another 4. That’s pretty good. Trust me it could be worse. Hang in there!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Before you know it, she will be sleeping.

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I’m not sure if I can answer your question but just letting you know that I was in the same boat. Until I put her in her cot or cradle each sleeping time after rocking her to sleep and I started giving her solids at 3 months she has been now sleeping 2-3 hours 3-4 times a day and 7-9 hours through the night. Also a lot of stimulation gets her really tired. Use baby panadole and bonjello teething gel for teething.

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she has been protected and with mom for 9 months,she will adjust as time marches on. right now there is no such thing of spoiling her. Right now she is learning trust and sercurity (vica-versa). So hang in the a love and cuddle all you can. Because trust me in a few years you will wonder where that time went. I know because i wonder all the time. My son just turned teenager and my girl is a twee. It seems like yesterday they started school and now middleschool. I miss the days they were wi th me all the time.

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Is this new or how it has been since birth?
It could be teething.

However, sleeping 4 hour and then eating and then sleeping for another 4 hours sounds about right. (My husband and I celebrated when our baby went 4 hours in between meals, For a long time it was every 2.) Milk simply doesn’t stay in the stomach long and the baby’s stomach is small- so she needs to eat more frequently.

My baby only had 2 naps a day. I found a swing helped a great deal. If he napped in the swing he slept longer.

And 11:30 sounds about right, but we are night owls ourselves. (Our baby would go to bed at 12:30.) However, I remember reading that most baby need a midnight feeding for a while.

Be careful with co-sleeping and sleeping on her stomach as it can lead to “crib death.” Talk to your doctor about how to do this safely or what to do instead.

If she is crying a lot and has colic. Look up the fussy baby network web page for help. They provide support to parents of fussy babies.

http://www.fussybabynetwork.org/

Good luck, this will pass.

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If it isnt gas or from teething you could try the put down pick up method what you do is whenever she wakes you just pick her up till shes calm and put her back to bed a nurse told me that happens when they are very attached to you for example your there and they feel safe cause your there when they fall asleep but when they wake there scared cause your not there.. so with the pick up put down method you pick up and soothe when crying then put down you dont leave you just back off… ( when doing this do not turn on the light, or bounce the baby for it wakes she up rubbing or rocking works best) you do this pick up put down pick up put down for as long as it takes each day should be less till she doesnt wake constantly..

If it is teething well for that all I can say is all you really can do is soothe the best thing i can suggest using is Orajel for babys its awesome..

If shes kept up from gas pains you can try doing bicycle legs or lay back in a chair with her on your chest alternating from a soothing light burping pat to a back rub if she fusses you aare still in a position to rock her side to side to help relieve her..

Hope that helped good luck.. I know how that feels lol Ive been up a lot with my little one when he was like that.

11

babies 0-1 year have a very irratic sleeping pattern changes.
but if she is comfortable, not having a wet nappy, not very
hungry and in a comfortable environment, am sure those are some factors to consider in order for a baby to have a sound sleep

12

Try leaving an article of your clothing close by for her to smell. I did this a few times with my son when we moved him out of our room and into his own. He seemed to calm down and relax. Just a note about sleeping on stomach. My son has been sleeping on his stomach since he was 2.5 months old. He learned to rollover and we tired everything to keep him off of his stomach. It really is the only way he will sleep. Just try to stay calm and relaxed during sleep time. Start a routine. I play with my son real good in the floor of his room, then i read to him (we both lay on the floor) then I change his diap, then I turn the lights off and music on and give him a bottle until he has had enough and then put him to bed. We started this when he was 4 wks old and it is still the exact same thing and he is 6 mo now. If you find a routine that is best for you even and extra minute a day is an accomplishment. Baby steps. Watch her for the first sign of sleepiness. (red or watery eyes, yawns or cranky). I hope some of this helps you. :)

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You may want check for any food allergies , also if you are into it visit a a homeopathic doctor. I am 45 and I had this problem when I was a baby and a chlid and I still sometimes (well alot of times)have this problem . I know that breathing is important( i find that I don’t breath when stressed and even when I am just thinking ) and not breathing properly can cause problems. Check for resperatory problems

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Let me share a little info with you that I almost guarantee will work. Follow the 5 S’s. SWADDLE, SIDE/STOMACHE, SHUSHING,SWINGING and finally SUCKING. in that exact order. Swaddle your baby in a blanket nice and tight, then position him or her on her side or tummy in your arms, make silent shushing sounds to mimick sounds of the womb and then slightly sway or swing your baby finally sucking on a pacifier. It usually takes 3 or 4 times to perfect this but many studies show that this will calm crying babies and help them sleep longer.

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A baby so young is not going to have huge stints of sleep time just a couple of hours or so at a time. In the first 3 months babies sleep whenever they have the inclination, so long as they have some of the basics: being dry, warm and fed and burped. After 3 months they start to become more aware of their surroundings and stay up for longer stints during the day. When they grow, so does the stomach allowing longer sleeps.

Incidently, you cannot spoil a child under 6 months – if she’s crying, follow your motherly instinct and comfort her. Letting your child cry it out is as hard on the parent as it is on the child. More concerning is I recently heard on Dr. Phil that a child who cries for prolonged stints of time raises their blood pressure which stops the flow of new oxygenated blood to the head and will eventually cause brain cell loss.

At 6 months I was still having trouble getting my son to sleep, I read the “no cry sleep solution”. It helped me understand baby’s sleep cycle, how much and how often my child should sleep at varioius ages, and what to do to establish sleep routines (for naps and night sleeps) that enabled my son to have long sleeps by himself, without crying. After a month of an established routine, my son became a great sleeper. I really recommend the read…and for those fussy days, I found a baby swing really helped stimulate sleep and give your arms a rest.

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